Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Shopping for Shoes on line vs. real shops

Shopping for Shoes Online vs. Shopping for Shoes in the "Real" World
By Desiree Stimpert, About.com Guide
http://shoes.about.com/od/shoes_store/i/shoes_shopping.htm

Personally, I love shopping for shoes, any time and any place. But still every once in a while when I mention that I buy so many shoes online, I'll get the surprised reaction of: "But, you can't try them on!"

This is certainly true, however, that shouldn't necessarily mean that you can't take advantage of the great selection and options available via online shoe shopping.

This article will help you decide whether shopping for shoes online is right for you.
Latest Developments
In recent years, online shoe sales have been on the rise.

I believe this is based on several factors.

    * Style - Due to space limitations, many brick and mortar department and shoe stores simply can not offer the style and color selections of many of the online retailers. While finding a black pump is a relatively simple task at any store, a bronze sling-back is tougher to accomplish.

    * Standard Sizing - While many of us have no trouble finding shoes to fit right "off the rack," there are probably more people who need something other than a standard width, or size. These options are more readily available online.

    * Brand Name and Designer Merchandise - Between television, print and online media, we're bombarded with brand and designer names that are often difficult to find in local department stores. But running that name through any search engine brings usually returns several online retailers of the shoes you so covet.
      History
      I remember shopping for shoes as a kid - and by that, I mean actually going to a shoe store, having a salesperson measure your foot, and bringing you styles in your size.

      Though I didn't appreciate that quite as much as a child, now I'd probably enjoy the attention.

      But pampering aside, what options were available to a woman who happened to wear a size 11 or 12? - Which, by the way, is much more common that the shoe industry wants to acknowledge.

      She would be forced to either cram her feet into a too-small shoe; be offered whatever was in the storeroom in her size - usually a loafer; or be directed to the men's department and told there were no pretty shoes for her.

      Though I haven't spoken directly with any men or women with smaller than average feet, I'm guessing their experience was similar, only perhaps the end result was being sent to the children's department, where they could peruse shoes with bows or super-heroes on them.

      Wider than average feet were forced into standard-width shoes; and people who needed comfortable footwear were forced to let the world know their needs by having to wear shoes that screamed "sensible."

      Thankfully, not only have the shoe manufacturers started catching on, but online shoe stores have increased our options -- and even brick-and-mortar shoe stores are starting to acknowledge that no two feet are created equal.

Pros: Online Shoe Shopping

    * Wider selection of styles and colors.

    * Better potential to find the exact shoe or brand you are looking for.

    * More sizing options

    * If you're an easy fit, or know your size, you can shop for shoes any time you desire, from the comfort of your home.

Cons: Online Shoe Shopping

    * If you are uncertain of your size or width, you must try shoes on before purchasing. Ill-fitting shoes are not good for your feet, or your mood.

    * If you have special footwear needs, you may want to have a discussion about them with a footwear expert. This is not easily accomplished online.

    * Even overnight shipping isn't as quick as a car ride to the nearest shoe store. If you need your shoes in a hurry, and they have to be right, don't take chances, buy them in person.

    * If you're uncomfortable with the idea of making online purchases, you should definitely not.

      While the vast majority of web transactions are safe, if online shopping costs you peace of mind - you should not do it.

Where It Stands
Ultimately, where and how you shop for shoes is totally your decision.

You should do what makes you most comfortable, and there is certainly nothing wrong with the traditional way of shopping for shoes -- as long as your needs are being met.

However, if you're interested in increasing your options; there is a whole world of new shoe shopping opportunities awaiting you on the world wide web.

MY THOUGHTS

i love online shopping. especially when someone else is paying.  we did this before - browsing the same sites at the same time while we were in different places.  it was fun.  and we somehow forgot we were in 2 different continents.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Tips for Making Big Feet Appear Smaller

Big Feet
Tips for Making Big Feet Appear Smaller
By Desiree Stimpert, About.com Guide



I regularly hear from people who think they have big feet, and want to know how to make them look smaller. If this sounds like you, the first thing I want to share with you is that your feet probably do not look as big to others as they do to you.

For example, in US sizes, there is only about 1/3 of an inch difference between whole sizes. So if you wear a size 10 shoe, and wish you wore a size 8, look at what 2/3 of an inch looks like on a ruler -- does it look like that much of a difference to you? It probably doesn't to others either. So try not to be embarrassed about your shoe size - style is for everyone and every size, and most people probably aren't as critical of your feet as you are.

Where to Buy Large Sized Shoes
Having said all of that, if your feet are truly bigger than what is considered average, you probably have difficulty finding shoes that fit. I've compiled lists of online retailers that cater to men and women that need larger shoes. Armed with those resources and the following advice, you'll have flattering shoes that fit well in no time.

Tips for Making Big Feet Look Smaller
And, if after all I said above you're still convinced your feet look too big, here are a few tips for styles that will make them appear smaller. Interestingly (and problematically for people with long and wide feet), many of the styles that will make your feet look shorter, will also make them look wider. For the sake of this article, I'm concentrating on length, not width.

Heeled Shoes vs. Flat Shoes
While high heels may not be as good for your feet or body, they will make your feet look smaller. The good news is that chunky heels and wedges usually accomplish this better than stiletto heels, and they're typically much easier to wear.

The heel height doesn't factor in quite as much on men's shoes, since there isn't that much of a variance, but typically styles that show just a hint of sole around the upper of the shoe will make your feet look shorter.

Round Toes Instead of Pointy Toes
Pointy toed shoes can make even the daintiest of feet appear long. Since they're usually very close-fitting, they also make the foot look thinner.

Narrow shoe styles might be a good thing if you think your feet look too wide, but if it's the length of your feet that is keeping you up at night, you definitely want to steer clear of slim shoes with pointy toes. The same goes for guys, so bicycle toes should be avoided.

Dark Colored Shoes
Shoes in darker colors will make your feet appear smaller than shoes in light or pastel shades, but don't feel like you just have to stick to black. In addition to darker earth tones and grays, deeper versions of red, blue, purple and green will serve you better than their lighter-toned counterparts.

Avoid Skimpy Sandals
A strappy sandal that exposes a lot of the foot will make anyone's foot look larger, but showing a little bit of your foot can work to your advantage. To break the monotony of just wearing closed shoes, women can try peep-toes, D'Orsays or sling-backs.

Closed Shoes for Men and Women
As a general rule for closed shoes, the more material there is on top of your foot, the longer your foot will appear. A style with an opening that is closer to the toes will not look as big as a shoe in which the foot opening is very close to the front of your leg.

Accents Make Big Feet Look Smaller
For women, bows, buckles, lace overlays, and kiltie detailing will make feet appear more petite, and guys who want their dogs to look smaller should check out shoes with tassels, and straps that cross the shoe closer to the toes than the leg.

Big-Looking Shoes Will Make Your Feet Look Big
My tips above are good general rules, but since there are so many style factors in every shoe, there's really no way of describing which shoes will be perfect for your feet.

The best and easiest thing you can do is take a good look at the shoe before putting it on. A style that looks longer than others out of the box is going to look longer on your feet.

MY THOUGHTS

at 7" to 8", i never really felt that my feet are too large.  especially after finding out that there are women with size 12" feet.  it's true that those sandals and pointed shoes can make your feet appear longer.  and the shoe accents make your feet look shorter.  oh, well.  what does it matter.  it certainly not an issue to me.
Shoe Store Tips
Things to Know Before Shoe Shopping
By Desiree Stimpert, About.com Guide

http://shoes.about.com/od/shoes_store/a/shoe_store_tips.htm

While your local Target or Wal-Mart may be fine for general purpose shoes, when you're shopping for specific shoes it pays to go shopping at the right kind of shoe stores.

In addition to shoe stores having more space devoted exclusively to shoes, the selection of widths, brands, designers and sizes is far more varied than at most general or department stores.

Another advantage to shopping for shoes at actual shoe stores is the assistance you'll likely receive. While it's not always true, many shoe stores will have helpful and knowledgeable sales assistance to help with your questions about sizing and materials.

If you need a specialty shoe, such as a cowboy boot, you might have better luck skipping the shoe stores altogether and opting instead to visit a store specializing in western wear. Again, you'll most likely deal with people who specialize in the type of product you're looking for - and when is the last time you've seen a pair of ski boots at K-Mart?

Skateboarding shoes can be found at skate shops, bridal shoes at bridal shops, and so on. In short, think about the shoes you want, then find a store that is most likely to have them instead of just settling for what is available at a general store.

Shoes are an important purchase, as your feet depend on you to get the right fit and style. Remember to be particular when you're shopping for shoes, and allow yourself the time to shop for them properly.

Additional Tips for Shoes Shopping

    * Schedule shopping for shoes for a day when you have plenty of time. This will allow you to try on several pairs, and even hit several stores if necessary.

    * Research local specialty and shoe stores before heading out. There are stores out there you may not even know about. Use the web or yellow pages to find addresses of shoe and specialty stores.

    * If you know the brand of shoe you want, or if you need a very specific shoe, you can call ahead and see if the store carries what you need, so you don't waste a drive.

    * Wear the kinds of socks or hose you'll most likely wear with the shoes in the future, and be sure to take along any bulky inserts or orthotics that you'll need to wear with the shoes.

MY THOUGHTS

i am someone who does not need any shoe shopping tips.  i can do that with my eyes closed.  but these are very good tips.  i guess it pays to know what you want (better yet, need).  the worst shopping mistake you can ever make is when you just shop.  no reason in particular.  you end up with an extra pair (or 2).  and there's no where to put them.  haay!

Monday, January 3, 2011

do you know what shoe trees are?

Shoe Trees
Types, Benefits and Uses of Shoe Trees
By Desiree Stimpert, About.com Guide

What are Shoe Trees?
Shoe trees are inserted into shoes to help maintain the original shoe shape, help prevent creases and cracking, and absorb moisture from the lining of the shoes. Available for men's and women's shoes, a shoe tree usually adjusts to cover a wide range of shoe sizes.

Types of Shoe Trees Available
Shoe trees are available in plastic or wood (usually cedar). The main benefits to plastic shoe trees is that they are less expensive, and they are lightweight, making them good for travel.

However, even though they are more expensive, cedar shoe trees have several advantages over plastic. They tend to last longer; add a clean cedar scent to footwear; and work better at keeping the natural shape. Cedar shoe trees also absorb moisture, whereas plastic shoe trees will not.

Shoe Trees Help Maintain Shoe Shape and Size
If used from the start, shoe trees can slow, or even prevent your shoes from developing creases, making them particularly useful for dress shoes.

If shoes are not worn for long periods of time, they actually shrink, using a shoe tree in these shoes will help to prevent shrinkage.

Shoe Trees Help Prevent Moisture Buildup
Feet perspire, and that moisture accumulates in the lining of our shoes. Wooden shoe trees also have the additional benefit of absorbing moisture, making the shoes more comfortable to wear.

Additional Benefits of Shoe Trees
Shoe trees are also useful when polishing or buffing. By inserting a shoe tree into the shoe you're working on, the shoe will be held in shape, and caring for them will be easier.

Shoe Trees vs. Shoe Stretchers
Shoe trees can marginally stretch shoes, but usually only very slightly. This will work for shoes that are just a touch too tight. If you're looking to stretch shoes, a better product to use would be a shoe stretcher.

MY THOUGHTS

if you're still wondering what a shoe tree is, just google a photo.  i think i should go hunting for the cedar ones.  especially for the high-end shoes (which are few, anyway) that i'd like to be able to use for a long time.   no wonder, shoes sometimes do not fit after staying in the closet for a very long time.  i thought my feet are getting bigger (which is possible because of weight gain. duh!).  let's see how much these cedar show trees would cost.  they might be more expensive than the shoes!!!

Caring for Beautiful Leather Shoes

Caring for Leather Shoes - The Benefits of Proper Shoe Care
How to Take Care of Your Smooth Leather Shoes
By Desiree Stimpert, About.com Guide


Care of leather shoes is not just about making your shoes look good, which would be reason enough to take care of them. It's also about preserving and adding to the life of your leather shoes.

Whether you spend a lot on your shoes, or don't have much to spend, taking care of your leather shoes makes sense.

In the case of designer, or more expensive shoes, look at it as though you're protecting your investment, or what could be a future collectible.

And if you don't have a lot to spend on shoes, keeping the ones you have in great shape will remove the need to buy new shoes for every occasion.

Why Caring For Leather Shoes is Important
Without proper conditioning and care, leather can dry out until it eventually cracks and falls apart, and you'll no longer want to wear them out of the house - even if they did cost a small fortune

While some people are content to throw on a coat of shoe polish when their shoes start to look shabby, to really protect your leather shoes and keep them looking their best, there are four steps to follow.

    * Clean
    * Condition
    * Polish
    * Preserve or Weatherproof

There are important distinctions between caring for smooth leather shoes and caring for suede, exotic skins, nubuck, or athletic shoes. The following general instructions pertain to caring for smooth leather shoes, such as men's or women's leather dress shoes.

In the next section, we'll address products for smooth leather shoe care, and how to prepare for a shoe cleaning session.

Most of the products you'll use for leather shoe care can be found at general stores, shoe stores and shoe repair shops. If you are nervous about working on your own shoes, of course, any shoe repair shop will be happy to clean, polish and condition your shoes for a price.

To do a full and thorough session of leather shoe care, you'll want the following items. Be sure the products you buy are recommended for smooth leather shoes.

    * Newspapers
    * Gloves
    * Soft Cotton Cloths or Rags
    * Soft Shoe Brush (optional)
    * Smooth Leather Shoe Cleaner
    * Leather Conditioner for Smooth Leather Shoes
    * Shoe Polish, or a Shoe Polish Alternative
    * Leather Protectant (Waterproofing Product)

The following pages will discuss these items in more detail, but it is most important that you follow the instructions that come with the products you buy, and be certain to only use products designed specifically for the materials of your shoes. i.e. Do not use these instructions or a product made for smooth leather to clean suede shoes!

Before you begin, you'll want to make sure to you're prepared for the shoe care process. Work on top of newspaper, wear gloves, and work in a well-ventilated area. These precautions are essential, as many shoe care products contain toxic chemicals that can be very harmful - more information on this in the shoe polish section of this article.

http://shoes.about.com/od/shoe_care/a/c_leather_shoes_2.htm

Cleaning Smooth Leather Shoes
Remove dirt by cleaning with a leather cleaner made specifically for smooth leathers. You can use saddle soap or a smooth leather shoe cleaner.

Shoe cleaners come in gels, foams, sprays, liquids and creams. Many leather cleaners come with an applicator top, or you can use a soft shoe brush to aid in removing dirt from the surface of the shoe. This will also help to remove dirt from any cracks in the shoes.

After cleaning, let the shoes dry for a few minutes and begin shining the shoes with a soft cotton cloth - either a shoe shine cloth, or even an old t-shirt, as long as it's soft and made of cotton.

Conditioning Leather Shoes
Conditioning your leather shoes will help soften and moisturize the leather, and protect it from drying out and cracking. Certain types of leather, and shoes worn in dryer climates might need to be conditioned more often.

Some shoe cleaning products will clean and condition your shoes, but if you want your shoes to get the full treatment, or used a product specifically for cleaning, the next step is to condition your smooth leather shoes.

Of course, you'll want a conditioner made for the specific type of shoe you're working on. Also, look for a natural conditioner that is absorbed into the material of the shoe, as opposed to a synthetic conditioner that sits on top of the surface.

Rub small amounts of conditioner into the shoe, until the entire shoe has been covered with conditioner. After a couple of minutes, wipe any remaining conditioner off of the shoes, as the leather will only absorb what it can.

http://shoes.about.com/od/shoe_care/a/c_leather_shoes_3.htm

As I was looking for certain shoe polish products, I was surprised to find warnings that shoe polish contained toxic chemicals and could actually be considered very dangerous.

While I know most of us have had shoe polish around the house for years, probably without any problems, the warnings I found were of enough concern to me that I wanted to share the information with all of you. Below is more information about the toxicity of certain shoe polishes, as well as alternative and traditional polishing instructions.
Toxicity of Shoe Polish
Certain shoe polishes contain toxic chemicals that can be absorbed through the skin and or inhaled (read more at the epa web site).

It is essential that if you use shoe polish, you wear gloves when doing so, do not drink alcohol while polishing shoes (it can increase the effects of certain chemicals), and keep all shoe polish out of reach of children and animal companions.

If used, shoe polish should be used in a well-ventilated area, and all of the product shoud be used, with any residual being discarded or given to someone who will use it.

When disposed, shoe polish needs to be handled as a hazardous househould substance. Rags or clothes used that come in contact with the shoe polish should also be immediately discarded.

While some shoe polished claim to be non-toxic, most do not list their ingredients, so it is impossible to know that they are truly free of dangerous chemicals. While it is better to avoid shoe polish if possible, if this is not practical for you, and you do feel the need to buy commercial shoe polish - please use the necessary precautions.

Alternatives to Using Traditional Shoe Polish
Take your shoes to a shoe repair shop to have them cleaned and polished for you.

Rub your smooth leather shoes (not suede or nubuck) with the inside of a banana peel (test this method first on a small spot of the shoe), then buff and shine with a soft cloth or rag.

Olive oil or walnut oil works for smooth leather as well. Work a small amount into shoe, and polish with a soft cotton cloth. Again, try this method in an inconspicous spot before using the oil on the entire shoe.
Polishing Your Leather Shoes with Traditional Shoe Polish
Shoe polishes are available in liquid, cream or paste. Liquid shoe polish dries quickly, but is not readily available in a lot of colors and does not last as long as the other options. Shoe polish paste is the longest lasting, but is very messy and slow to work with. Shoe polish cream is a great compromise, and is available in lots of colors.

Of course you'll need to get the appropriate color of polish for you shoes. You can find a variety of shoe polishes at shoe stores, shoe repair shops and general stores, although you won't find a large variety of colors at the latter. There are also several places on the web where you can find shoe polish. For example, George's Shoes sells several different colors and types of shoe polishes.

Apply the polish to a small, less conspicous area of the shoe to test and be sure the color is right.

Rub the polish into the shoe with a soft cloth, and allow it to dry thoroughly.

After the shoe polish is dry, shine your shoes by buffing them with a soft cloth or brush made specifically for shining shoes.

http://shoes.about.com/od/shoe_care/a/c_leather_shoes_4.htm

Weatherproofing your leather shoes will help to protect them from water and other elements that can ruin the finish and shorten the life of your shoes.

The Right Protectant for Your Shoes
Different weatherproofing products serve different purposes, so you should choose wisely. For example, if it is essential that your shoes are waterproof because you spend a lot of time in wet or messy conditions, and a pretty finish is not as is important, a beeswax product would be a better choice than a protective spray.

Beeswax products form a protective layer over the surface of the shoe or boot instead of being absorbed into the leather. This provides a better barrier against water, but the additional layers can alter the appearance of the shoes.

If the appearance of the shoe or boot is of more importance than the weatherproofing properties, a spray protectant should do the trick. By providing a breathable barrier against mild to moderate wet conditions and dirt, this type of weatherproofing product is virtually invisible on your shoes or boots.

Joe's Shoe Service sells a large variety of waterproofing products including those for smooth leather, suede or nubuck.
Additional Tips for Leather Shoe Care
# If your leather shoes have a lot of old polish buildup, you may want to use a pre-cleaner.

    * Don't try to use shoe polish to change the color of your shoes. If you need your shoe color changed, consult a shoe repair shop.

    * Remove any laces before beginning. Laces can be cleaned separately or replaced if they are in really bad shape.

    * The next time you buy a pair of leather shoes, condition them before ever wearing them. This will help insure that your shoes are best protected from the start, and will save time on future cleanings.

http://shoes.about.com/od/shoe_care/a/c_leather_shoes_5.htm

MY THOUGHTS

that is something i need to try - cleaning leather shoes with the inside of a banana peel.  if this works, i'm sure this will work with bags, too.  or anything leather for that matter.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Converting Men's to Women's Shoe Sizes

How Do I Convert Men's to Women's Shoe Sizes?
By Desiree Stimpert, About.com Guide

Question: How Do I Convert Men's to Women's Shoe Sizes?

Answer: As a general rule, converting men's to women's shoe sizes is fairly simple - you would subtract two sizes from your U.S. women's size to find the appropriate size in U.S. men's shoes.

For example, if you wear a size 9 in U.S. women's shoes - you would most likely take a size 7 in U.S. men's.

That is the general rule, but I've seen this vary quite a bit.

For a perfect fit in any type of shoe, you'll want to try them on - or measure your feet and compare your findings to a specific manufacturer or brand of shoe.

MY THOUGHTS

useful to know. but i don't think i'll ever wear men's shoes.  so, why bother?

A Unique Beautiful Shoe Experience

Custom Shoes and a Unique Shoe Experience

A new show store that allows one to create their own designer shoes has opened in Bethesda Maryland. It is the first of its kind on the Eastern Seaboard.

Bethesda, DC, December 22, 2010 --(PR.com)-- A new concept in designer women’s shoes was launched this week by Bethesda native Nina Kimmel, making it the first of its kind on the Eastern Seaboard. My Shoe Cafe, a unique build-it-yourself custom design shoe store, opened this week in the Westfield Montgomery Mall, Bethesda, Maryland. Sporting the slogan, “Where sole mates are made…”, it provides a new and creative experience for woman looking for the ultimate in personalized shoes. My Shoe Cafe is a combination of Kimmel’s love of designer shoes and a passion she developed for cafes while traveling in Europe. “For me and so other women, shoes are not just something you wear on your feet, they are a statement and reflect ones personality,” said Kimmel. “In My Shoe Cafe you become your own personal shoe designer!”

Born and raised in Bethesda, 26-year-old Kimmel’s s love affair with shoes and fashion started with her strutting around in her mother’s shoes and clothes as a youngster but developed quickly when as early as 8 years old she had the opportunity to accompany her parents to the fashion centers of Milan, Paris, Madrid and London. Nina’s favorite activity when in these cities was to look at, try on and buy shoes.

At 16 Nina’s personal shoe collection had grown to 200 pairs. While on a summer vacation in Paris with her family that same year, Nina purchased clothes and a fun pair of heels on des Champs-Elysees and then decided to show them off as she hung out at a local cafe. She concluded at this point that fashion and cafes made a perfect fit.

My Shoe Cafe offers a broad array of colors, fabrics and shoe accessories for customers to select from when “building” their own customerized shoe. One of the unique elements of the store is a full time cobbler, with 20 years experience in the shoe-making and repair business. While customers relax and sip complimentary coffee, their personalized shoes—custom made to fit each foot—are created while they wait. An additional service allows customers to bring in their existing shoes and select and add My Shoe Cafe accessories to give their shoes a new and refreshing lift. My Shoe Cafe’s spacious premises are ideal for a “girls night out” or for birthday parties, bridal showers, bachelorette parties and similar fun shoe events.

MY THOUGHTS

i like this idea. nope.  that's not exactly correct.  i love this idea.  coffee and shoes.  shoes and coffee.  whichever way,love them both